By Bill Adler Jr.
Mobile phones, mp3 gamers, pcs, autos, guitars, hi-tech strength lawnmowers...it usually turns out that males relate to their quite a few toys and devices greater than they do to even an important humans of their lives! "Boys and Their Toys" explains the advanced, intimate, and infrequently humorous relationships males have with their fabric possessions, in order that spouses, companions, and critical others can use this information to enhance their human-to-human dating.
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He never had to resort to violence to escape or to thwart the bad guys. MacGyver frequently tackled ‘‘issues’’ like the environment and teenage runaways. MacGyver was very popular with boys. And many wanted to be just like him when they grew up. Because the MacGyver show ran from 1985 to 1992, we don’t yet have a generation of grown men who wanted be MacGyver, but he had attributes that many boys emulate, such as being on the side of right and 28 Boys and Their Toys being able to solve any problem no matter how vexing and no matter how limited the resources at hand.
Take cell phones for instance: When the first phones appeared that also took short movies, that was a bit of magic. The ability to shoot a quick little movie and sent it instantly to the other side of the planet for a friend or family member to view seemed so amazing, and to many people it still is. When laser pointers arrived, they also were so amazing that people, especially men, purchased them in droves, despite the fact that their actual usefulness was quite limited: They didn’t bring down enemy aircraft, but could only be used to highlight whiteboard and blackboard presentations.